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Friday, April 1, 2011

This Article Seems Pretty Relevant after the past month of my life....read on...its pretty intetresting!!



Test your knowledge...see how much you know about your body and your stress levels...you might be surprised.  These facts are pretty interesting!!!


41 Random Facts About . . .Stress

Stress has been called “the silent killer” and can lead to heart disease, high blood pressure, chest pain, and an irregular heartbeat.d


While it is a myth that stress can turn hair gray, stress can cause hair loss. In fact, telogen effluvium (hair loss) can begin up to three months after a stressful event.j


In 2009, the top most stressful jobs were a surgeon, commercial airline pilot, photojournalist, advertising account executive, and real estate agent. The least stressful jobs were actuary, dietitian, astronomer, systems analyst, and software engineer.l




The top three stressful cities in America are Chicago, Ilinois; Los Angeles, California; and New York, New York.i


Stress alters the neurochemical makeup of the body, which can affect the maturation and release of the human egg. Stress can also cause the fallopian tubes and uterus to spasm, which can affect implantation. Stress in men can affect sperm count and motility and can cause erectile dysfunction. In fact, stress may account for 30% of all infertility problems.b


Stress can make acne worse. Researchers say stress-related inflammation rather than a rise is sebum (the oily substance in skin) is to blame.p






Laughter is a powerful stress reducer









Laughing lowers stress hormones (like cortisol, epinephrine, and adrenaline) and strengthens the immune system by releasing health-enhancing hormones.o


The stress hormone cortisol not only causes abdominal fat to accumulate, but it also enlarges individual fat cells, leading to what researchers call “diseased” fat.d


Stress is linked to the six leading causes of death: heart disease, cancer, lung ailments, accidents, liver cirrhosis, and suicide.f


The stress of caring for a disabled spouse increases the risk of stroke substantially.o


Chronic stress can impair the developmental growth in children by lowering the production of growth hormone from the pituitary gland.m


A 2009 CNN poll reveals that the number one reason for stress in most countries is money. The countries most stressed about money are Malaysia, China, Singapore, and the United States. The countries least stressed about money are Russia, France, and Italy.a


The term “stress” derives from the Latin stringere (to draw tight).j


Stress causes capillaries to close, which restricts bleeding if a flesh wound should occur.f


Pupils dilate (mydriasis) during stress much the same way they dilate in response to attraction: to gather more visual information about a situation.f


Chronic stress floods the brain with powerful hormones that are meant for short-term emergency situations. Chronic exposure can damage, shrink, and kill brain cells.o


A 2003 study found that women with moderate levels of stress were at lower risk for suicide than those women who had very high or very low levels of stress.j


Scientists suggest that stress is part of the evolutionary drive because it has enabled humans to survive. Specifically, stress temporarily increases awareness and improves physical performance.n


Stress makes the blood “stickier,” in preparation for an injury. Such a reaction, however, also increases the probability of developing a blood clot.d






Eating moderate levels of dark chocolate reduces stress hormone levels




Research has shown that dark chocolate reduces stress hormones such as cortisol and other fight-flight hormones. Additionally, cocoa is rich in antioxidants called flavonoids.o


Chronic stress increases cytokines, which produce inflammation. Exposure to constant inflammation can damage arteries and other organs.j



Stress can alter blood sugar levels, which can cause mood swings, fatigue, hyperglycemia, and metabolic syndrome, a major risk factor for heart attack and diabetes.f


Chronic stress worsens irritable bowel syndrome (IBS), a condition that irritates the large intestine and causes constipation, cramping, and bloating.j


Peptic ulcers are caused by the H.pylori bacteria or the use of NSAIDS—not stress. However, stress can exacerbate ulcers and keep them from healing.j


Chronic stress decreases the body’s immune system’s response to infection and can affect a person’s response to immunizations.m


Studies show that HIV-infected men are more likely to progress to AIDS if they are under high stress than those with lower levels of stress.m


Stress can increase the ability of chemicals to pass the blood-brain barrier, which shields neurons from some poisons, viruses, toxins, and other fluctuations in normal blood chemistry.g


Acoustic stress (caused by loud noises) can trigger an episode of Long QT Syndrome (LQTS), a disorder of the heart’s electrical system. LGTS is estimated to cause as many as 3,000 deaths in the U.S. each year.g


Young people from military families who have a deployed parent report higher levels of stress and emotional problems than other adolescents and teens.h


Stress increases the risk of pre-term labor and intrauterine infection. Additionally, chronic levels of stress place a fetus at greater risk for developing stress-related disorders and affect the fetus’s temperament and neurobehavioral development.e


Post-traumatic stress physically changes children’s brains; specifically, stress shrinks the hippocampus, a part of the brain that stores and retrieves memories.m






Stress balls work by massaging acupuncture points in the hand










Chinese stress balls (Baoding balls) were created during the Ming dynasty (1368-1644) in Baoding, China. Originally made of iron, the balls are thought to relieve stress because they touch pressure or acupuncture points on the hand.j


Stress can result in more headaches as a result of the body rerouting blood flow to other parts of the body.j


The hyper-arousal of the body’s stress response system can lead to chronic insomnia.j


An early record of post-traumatic stress syndrome dates from the eighth century B.C. in Homer’s Iliad when Achilles suffers severe battle stress in the Trojan War. Achilles complains of feeling emotionally “numb” or “dead” and expresses suicidal thoughts and rage.m


In Shakespeare’s Henry IV, Lady Percy’s description of her battle-worn husband, Harry Hotspur, is surprisingly similar to the symptoms of actual post-traumatic syndrome, such as feeling estranged from others, difficulty sleeping, exhibiting an exaggerated startle, dysphoria, and strong anxiety.m


When cells shrink due to exposure to stress hormones, they disconnect from each other, which contributes to depression.o


Men are more likely than women to develop certain stress-related disorders, including hypertension, aggressive behavior, and abuse of alcohol and drugs.o




Chronic low-level noise and low-frequency noise below the threshold of human hearing provoke stress hormones that can interfere with learning and can also elevate blood pressure, degrade the immune system, and increase aggression.g


Stress creates hormonal changes in the human body that can decrease libido and sex response. However, the BBC reports that penetrative sex (as opposed to other types of sex, such as masturbation) decreased stress hormones while those who had no sex had the highest blood pressure.k


Extreme or sudden emotional trauma can lead to “broken heart syndrome”(BHS), or stress cardiomyopathy (severe heart muscle weakness). This condition occurs rapidly, and usually in women. In Japan, BHS is called “octopus trap cardiomyopathy” because the left ventricle balloons out in a peculiar shape.c


-- Posted February 19, 2010






References






a Barthelemy, Claire. “Poll: Money Worries World’s Greatest Cause of Stress.” CNN.com. September 30, 2009. Accessed: January 28, 2010.






b Bouchez, Colette. “Stress and Infertility.” WebMD.com. Accessed: January 31, 2010.






c “Broken Heart Syndrome.” MayoClinic.com. Accessed: January 28, 2010.






d Chilnick, Lawrence. 2008. Heart Disease: An Essential Guide for the Newly Diagnosed. Philadelphia, PA: Perseus Books Group.






e “Fetus to Mom: You’re Stressing Me Out!” MedicineNet.com. Accessed: January 30, 2010.






f “How Does Stress Affect Us?” American Psychological Association. Accessed: January 30, 2010.






g “The Human Brain.” The Franklin Institute. Accessed: January 27, 2010.






h Landau, Elizabeth. “Military Teens Have More Stress.” CNN.com. December 8, 2009. Accessed: January 29, 2010.






i Lynch, Sara. “America’s Most Stressful Cities.” Forbes.com. August 20, 2009. Accessed: January 27, 2010.






j McEwen, Bruce. 2003. The End of Stress as We Know It. Washington, D.C.: Joseph Henry Press.






k “Sex Cuts Public Speaking Stress.” BBC. January 26, 2006. Accessed: January 30, 2010.






l Tachmincioglu, Eve. “Survey: Surgeons, Pilots Top List of Stressful Jobs.” MSNBC.com. November 24, 2009. Accessed: January 30, 2010.






m Van der Kolk, Bessel, et. al. 2007. Traumatic Stress: The Effects of Overwhelming Experience on Mind, Body, and Society. New York, NY: The Guilford Press.





n Van Duyne, Sara. 2003. Stress and Anxiety-Related Disorders. Berkeley Heights, NJ: Enslow Publishers.





o Wallenstein, Gene. 2003. Mind, Stress, and Emotion: The New Science of Mood. Boston, MA: Commonwealth Press.





p Warner, Jennifer. “Stress Makes Teen Acne Worse.” WebMD.com. March 7, 2002. Accessed: January 30, 2010.



I added the pictures for humor...lol...stress is a bad mutha...if you dont learn to manage it...it can kill you...I am learning to better control my stress and learn to relax for my health, but it is hard for me.  Baby steps is all I can manage right now...lol!!


Chinese Proverb ~ Tension is who you think you should be. Relaxation is who you are ~





Sunday, January 2, 2011

35 by 35

On March 17, 2012, I will be 35 years old.  There are some things that I have been wanting to accomplish by this age, namely having my own business and starting a family.  In the spirit of the new year and inspired by one of my favorite bloggers Fat Bridesmaid, many of these goals will hopefully be accomplished, or well on their was in 2011 and give me a push for great things next year!


  1. Get acupuncture
  2. Begin practicing yoga and meditation
  3. See a Broadway play
  4. Visit California
  5. Learn to play guitar
  6. Learn Italian
  7. Go back to school
  8. Learn to drive
  9. Move into my grandmother's house
  10. Reach my goal weight
  11. Take a roadtrip with friends
  12. Write a book
  13. Start a podcast with my husband 
  14. Learn to relax
  15. Have a spa weekend with the girls
  16. Seriously get the business plans that I started underway 
  17.  Sell unneeded items in the house and declutter
  18. Pay down student loans
  19. Create a budget and stick to it
  20. Take advantage of free activities and entertainment
  21. Spend more time with family and friends
  22. Be more appreciative of what I have and stop taking things for granted
  23. Resume my healthier eating habits established last year 
  24. Create a documentary about being plus size
  25. Continue seeking out acting opportunities
  26. Volunteer more
  27. Spend more time outside
  28. Try to develop some common interests with my husband
  29. Work on my marriage, strengthen and protect the integrity
  30. Find myself
  31. Get a job that makes me happy
  32. Travel more
  33. Save money
  34. Blog regularly
  35. Learn to knit or crochet

Friday, December 31, 2010

2010-The good, The Bad and The Ugly--2011, bring on the good stuff!!


As 2010 draws to a close, looking back, it has been a long and painful year in many respects. The fibro monster reared its ugly head and took over my life for most of the year, affecting my health, my job, my marriage and other relationships.  I also lost one of the most important people in my life on 9/7/10, my grandma Kate.  Though she lived a long life and almost made it until her 94th birthday, her absence resonates.  2010 was also 5 years since my beloved sister Sabrina passed away. I don't feel as if I have been the same since her passing, as if part of me died with her.

Though it may seem if 2010 was a complete wash out, I did manage to have a few happy moments! I was able to lose quite a bit of weight by learning a lot more about fibromyalgia through the help of a nutritionist.  I got to be on stage again and in an indie film.  I made some wonderful new acquaintances, and reconnected with some old friends. We were blessed with the opportunity to spend Thanksgiving and Christmas with our families who are all relatively healthy.  So many wonderful things were happening for my friends and acquaintances  as well this year and I was able to share the joy of new jobs, new houses, new relationships, and new babies although even vicariously.

My wish for 2011 is to find myself again.  I feel that I have gotten lost somehow over the years and I want to find happiness and inner peace. Whatever that is.


We will open the book. Its pages are blank. We are going to put words on them ourselves. The book is called Opportunity and its first chapter is New Year's Day. Edith Lovejoy Pierce


Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Busy, Busy, Busy!


It has been almost 2 months since I have written in this particular blog, but life has been extremely busy.  Trying to feel better, trying to be more active...all has taken up a lot of my writing time!

I have lost over 40 pounds since the end of February, due in part to the anti-inflamatory diet I have been on since the beginning of April, which you can read about in my other blog What's Eating Danielle. I am happy to have lost the weight, I still have a lot more to go, but it is a great start and am proud of myself!

I also started auditioning again.  Every time we go see a show, I remember what it was like being on stage, and I wanted to have that feeling again!  I have had three auditions so far for plays and one audition for an indie film.  They all went well, and am waiting on the outcome--I hate waiting!!  The first audition was for Pittsburgh Shakespeare in the Parks, Much Ado About Nothing.   I wasn't as prepared for my audition as I should have been (i.e. didn't have my monologues completely memorized) and I didn't get in.  I was not upset.  It was my first audition in a long time. I was proud of my self for going!  My second audition was for McCaffery Mysteries, Inc., a non-profit murder mystery dinner theater company who donates some of their profits to local charity organizations.  Hopefully I will be doing a show with them in September.  Lastly, I auditioned for Fairest, the Black Tale of Snow White with Rage of the Stage Players.  I have seen a few of their shows, and love the twisted fairytales!! My audition went very well, so hopefully I will hear a positive outcome soon!

The pain has not let up much, unfortunately.  I am scheduled to start a six week pain management program on 6/23 and hopefully will be back to work some time in August.I have been fighting with the short term disability company and have to appeal, so money has been extremely tight.  The doctors don;t want me to return to work until I have completed the pain management program, yet they fail to send in the disability paperwork--this whole process has been a nightmare!!! I am in a ton of pain and so stressed out!  I wish I felt better and was able to go back to work, but right now I can't, and my job does not have work from home or part time for people in my position, so I just will have to play the waiting game.

I pray that this pain management program will help ease the pain that I have been experiencing over the past few months.  In the almost 10 years I have had fibromyalgia, this is the worst that I have felt and I hope that I never have to go through this again!!

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Calgon, Take Me Away!!!

I have been in severe pain the past few days, perhaps I over did it on the weekend, and now I am paying the price.   Tired, extreme pain, etc, etc, etc. What else is new?????  On the bright side, I just started seeing a holistic health counselor, which you can read about in my other blog What's Eating Danielle,  who put me on an anti-inflammatory diet, which I started today. Hopefully everything I have been doing thus far, and will continue to do, along with this new diet, continued exercise and additional measures that will be recommended after my evaluations with the pain clinic, will get my body back on track and I can manager the fibromyalgia like I was before this setback.

Sunday, April 18, 2010

Healing the Mind, Helping the Body!

I have had a great few days!!! Though still in a lot of pain, my mental attitude has improved significantly and allowed me to have some fun finally, after almost two months of misery!

Friday night, I went out with my husband for a bit to a Four Square event.  He is very social media and tech savvy and it is important for us to support each other's very different interests.  We did not stay very long because there were bad storms passing through, but at least we got out of the house for a little while!

Saturday we spent the day with my family with my parents, grandmother and 3 year old nephew Giovanni, who we love very much!! He is so smart, energetic, and just brightens up our lives!! Chris and I hope to have a child in the next few years, once we get our health and finances in order, but if it is not in the cards, at least we already have a wonderful little boy to spoil!! After that, I went home and passed out for the night while Chris went to the movies with his best friend.

Today Chris and I went our separate ways-he to watch the penguins with his friends and I to a birthday celebration with my friends.  Our plan was to originally go to a bit of both together, but since  I am not a huge sports fan and he did not know most of the people at the party,  we went to our own events and enjoyed ourselves immensely!

I know that my recent illness has affected our marriage.  I am irritable and in extreme pain.  My husband is loving, caring, and supportive, but does not understand my illness. He felt bad to leave me to go out with friends and I have had to yell at him to make him go out. As a person who has lived with this illness for almost 10 years, and lived alone for 5 years,  I am not used to people wanting to constantly  take care of me. I know its a part of marriage that I need to get used to, a partnership, but I have always been financially and socially independent.  I married my husband because I love him and because we have been through a lot together, not to have him take care of me!  This issue however for another time....

All in all, fabulous weekend!!  Meeting with the nutritionist tomorrow and started a new blog What's Eating Danielle to track the nutrition part of the journey.

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

You Are What You Eat

I had a very wonderful meeting today with a Holistic Health Counselor.  I found her company,  Full Well , through a Facebook link.  I chose to meet with her, because as I am on this journey to a happier, healthier life, I know that my eating habits are not the best.  I want to lose weight, have more energy, take control of my life back from the fibromyalgia, and PCOS that has plagued me for years!

Leah has also struggled with the Fibromyalgia and Chronic Fatigue issues, so I am interested to learn from her how she has healed herself through nutrition and lifestyle changes. I know that changing established routines and ways of eating may be hard at first.  But I am ready to face this challenge head on!  This time that I have had off, I have begun to take better care of myself, to listen to my body, and lost 24 pounds in the process, but that is just the first step.

I am hoping to never have another relapse like this again! I have learned so much about myself, and I am learning more every day.  My mind is open to new possibilities, and hopefully a healthier, happier new me will be debuting to the world within the next few months!!